Match Quality Self-Assessment

Match Quality Checklist

Thinking through a specific match? Mark your honest observations across intentions, communication, reciprocity, lifestyle, boundaries, and follow-through. The tool organizes what you notice — no score, no prediction, just a clearer picture to support your own judgment.

Private by design. This checklist runs entirely in your browser. Nothing is uploaded, nothing is saved, no account is needed, and your answers are never sent anywhere or logged.

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Intentions

  • We have talked about what we are each looking for.

  • Our stated intentions appear to roughly align.

  • Neither person seems to be assuming the other's intentions.

Communication

  • Conversation feels reasonably easy for both of us.

  • Our texting rhythms and expectations are workably close.

  • We can move between light and serious topics.

  • Disagreements so far have been handled respectfully.

Reciprocity

  • Both of us ask questions, not just one person.

  • Both of us initiate sometimes.

  • Replies usually include something to respond to.

Lifestyle

  • Our schedules leave realistic room to see each other.

  • Our social preferences (homebody vs. outgoing) are workably close.

  • Location and logistics would not make meeting a constant strain.

Boundaries

  • When I express a limit, it is respected.

  • We are both comfortable with the pace things are moving.

  • Neither of us has felt pressured to speed up or slow down.

Follow-Through

  • Plans we have made have actually happened.

  • Their behavior so far matches what they said early on.

  • Effort feels roughly mutual, not one-sided.

Your Results

Answer a few statements above to see your areas of alignment, things worth discussing, and potential sources of friction.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is this checklist private?

Yes. Everything runs in your browser. Nothing is uploaded, nothing is saved, no account is required, and your answers are never sent anywhere or logged.

Does it give a compatibility score or percentage?

No. This tool deliberately produces no compatibility percentage, love score, or relationship prediction. It only organizes your own observations into areas of alignment, things worth discussing, and potential sources of friction.

Does it use AI?

No. The checklist is a simple, deterministic, client-side self-assessment. There is no AI, no backend, and no data collection.

What do the results mean?

Areas of Alignment are observations you marked as present. Things Worth Discussing are observations you are unsure about — good conversation starters. Potential Sources of Friction are observations you marked as absent, which may be worth weighing as you decide how much to invest.