The core rule
If someone you met through a dating app asks you for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, bank details, account credentials, or verification codes, treat it as a serious reason to pause. No legitimate romantic partner needs these from you — and these requests are among the strongest warning patterns in online dating. One is reason enough to slow down.
A financial request was selected.
Requests for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, bank details, passwords, or verification codes from someone you met on a dating app deserve serious caution. These are among the strongest warning patterns, and one is reason enough to pause.
Do not send money or share codes or account details. Read our Financial Request Safeguard and Scam Pattern Library for context.
Types of financial requests
Cash or money transfers
Requests to wire money, send through a payment app, or transfer for an emergency. Treat any amount as a reason to pause.
Gift cards
Gift cards are nearly impossible to reverse and a classic scam medium. Never share gift-card codes.
Cryptocurrency
Crypto transfers are irreversible and untraceable. Any crypto request through a dating app is a serious warning.
Bank or card details
Account, routing, or card numbers are never needed in dating and can enable theft or fraud.
Credentials & codes
Passwords and one-time codes let someone take over an account — including payment apps.
Receive & forward
Being asked to receive and resend packages or money can make you an unwitting participant in fraud.
Why urgency appears
Financial requests almost always come with urgency — a medical crisis, a travel deadline, a limited-time investment. Urgency is not incidental; it is the mechanism that stops you from verifying, consulting people you trust, or thinking clearly. When you feel pressured to act fast, that pressure itself is the signal to slow down.
What to do
- Do not send money, gift cards, or crypto. Do not share bank, card, or account details.
- Do not share passwords or one-time verification codes — ever.
- Pause. Urgency is designed to prevent you from thinking.
- Verify independently. Talk to someone you trust before acting.
- Use the Red Flag Checker to review the full pattern of signals.
- Report and block on the platform you are using.
Swipe Authority provides general educational guidance only and never provides financial-transfer instructions. For financial fraud, contact your bank and the appropriate authorities in your area.
If you are in immediate danger or being threatened
An AI dating-analysis tool is not the right resource for a serious or dangerous situation. Your safety comes first.
- If you are in immediate physical danger, contact your local emergency services right away.
- If you are being threatened, blackmailed, or coerced — including with private images — do not pay and do not send more content. Stop communication, save evidence (screenshots, messages), and contact local law enforcement.
- Report the account on the dating platform you are using and block the person.
- If private images are being used against you, note that many jurisdictions treat this as a crime. Local law enforcement and victim-support organizations in your area can advise you.
- Consider reaching out to someone you trust. You do not have to handle this alone.
Swipe Authority cannot block another person's account, investigate crimes, or provide legal advice. For those needs, contact the appropriate authorities and qualified professionals in your area.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What if it is a real emergency?
Real emergencies do not require secrecy or gift cards. You can offer to help them contact family, their embassy, or local services. Never send money under urgency to someone you have not met in person.
They asked for a small amount — is that okay?
Small requests often precede larger ones. Treat any financial request through a dating app as a serious warning, regardless of the amount.
Is an "investment opportunity" different from a money request?
No — introducing investments or crypto through a dating app is a well-documented pattern. Genuine romantic partners do not typically recruit you into financial opportunities.
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